Selfishness has no place in life...if you have the right people in your life, trust and believe you won't lose yourself in being giving of yourself. I think that's a lot of people's fear. Why hold back? Why have these insignificant hang ups? If you have a person who's giving you the best of themselves and you're not, you will burn them out and they will run from you like a mosquito out of an AIDS clinic! Show growth, show that person everything they give is not in vain! Speak their language of love! Especially if they took time to speak yours! For those who say no....there's others that say YES! #bemindful #bevigilant #betheGOAT