I'm not the best advice giver on relationships yet I do know why they fail most times. I had a friend tell me she doesn't chase men. Well I told her she's gonna run herself back into single life. Don't trip...I get how the past can scorn the future, but we decent men like to know that you women are interested as well and not on playing games BS. I say if you want the time for you, you have to put in the time as well. I hear women say all the time they want a decent man, but won't nurture the courting or relationship. I can't take credit for this THOT...shout out to my homie Lilo!!